Japanese Sex Essentials

This is an English translation of an educational Japanese blog about sex in Japan and sex with Japanese people. All images and words are copyright the original author, poza.

Sex frequency in Japan and elsewhere.

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Right now, many couples are enjoying a pleasurable, satisfying sex life together. Being able to enjoy a good sex life with someone you love is a joyous thing. But for however many couples there are who are enjoying deep, passionate sex lives together, there are also couples whose sex lives are rather shallow.

Usually, men and women will go on dates together during the day, and then join each other in bed at night, connect their genitals, and engage in sexual intercourse. These couples use their sexual organs to stimulate themselves over and over and experience the joy of being in love. Personally, I always have sex with my girlfriend on the weekend. About once or twice a week. We get naked in bed, embrace each other, kiss, and then I thrust my erect penis into my girlfriend's vagina over and over, until I experience a powerful orgasm and ejaculate inside her. Sometimes I use a condom, but even so, the feeling of pumping my penis inside her as I ejaculate is such an amazing sensation, no matter how many times I experience it. During this brief period of time, I feel a sense of love through the union of our genitals. That's the kind of loving sex I have with my girlfriend every week.

Traditionally, sex has been used for a man and a woman to procreate, but there are many people who use it as a way to express love and give pleasure to one another. Some couples have sex multiple times a day, while others only have sex once a week or once a month. The frequency differs depending on the couple. Today, I did a little research on the frequency of sex among couples.

sex frequency

In Japan, there exists a mathematical formula for estimating how much sex a certain demographic has on average. For example, for people in their 20s, the formula would be 20 / 10 x 9 = 18, meaning that people in their 20s have sex 8 times every 10 days. According to this formula, people in their 30s have sex 7 times in 20 days, people in their 40s have sex 6 times in 30 days, and people in their 50s have sex 5 times in 40 days.

Calculating this on a monthly scale would get us: 24 times for people in their 20s, 10 times for people in their 30s, 6 times for people in their 40s, and 4 times for people in their 50s. This formula seems to suggest that people in their 20s have sex at least once a day, and sometimes more than once in a night. Now, this formula is certainly questionable, especially if you try to calculate people in their teens with it. (It would claim that teenagers have sex all day without stopping.) However, teenagers are full of youth, energy, and stamina, and middle schoolers and high schoolers in Japan are certainly enjoying pleasurable sex with each other, so it isn't hard to believe that some couples are having passionate sex all night and bucking their hips until every last drop of young, fresh, thick semen is deposited into the vagina. When I was a teenager, I remember working up a sweat daily with my girlfriend over summer break, and the more time we spent together, the more sex we were able to enjoy.

ejaculation

Of course, there is nothing conclusive about that Japanese mathematical formula. In fact, I believe that the actual numbers are much higher. How often do you think couples actually engage in sexual intercourse? According to my research today, I came up with the following frequencies per year (in Japan):

Teenagers: 31 times
20s: 61 times
30s: 36 times
40s: 41 times
50s: 34 times

It looks like people in their 20s have the most opportunities to have sex. 61 times a year means about once a week on average. I imagine that many people in their 20s in Japan go on dates on their days off and then enjoy sex at night. Now, all of these numbers have been strictly in regard to Japanese sexual habits. Today, my research surprised me when I found out that couples in other countries have even more sex than Japanese people. In America, the average frequency per year is 124 times. This means that most people have sex at least 10 times a month.

Compared with the rest of the world, it looks like Japanese people have sex less on a whole. Japan does have a declining birth rate problem, so I think Japanese people should work harder to find chances to have more sex. Why would you not want more chances to get in bed with the person you love, unite your genitals, and enjoy a powerful, pleasurable orgasm together?

What is sex?

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Adults have sex.

Sex is used by adults to create children. Adults have sex to create children, but adults love sex, so they also have sex even when they don't want to create children. This is because sex feels very good.

Sex is performed with a man's penis and a woman's vagina. Boys and girls only use a penis and a vagina to urinate. This is because boys and girls are still too young to use a penis and a vagina for sex. Once a boy or girl becomes an adult, their penis or vagina grows and becomes capable of having sex. Before an adult male has sex, his penis gets very big and hard. Before an adult female has sex, her vagina gets very wet. When adult men and women have sex, they get naked in bed and embrace each other. Then, the man takes his enlarged, erect penis and inserts into the wet vagina.

This is sex.

When a penis goes in and out of a vagina, they both feel very good. When the man's penis starts to feel so good he can't control himself anymore, a sticky white liquid called semen squirts out from the hole at the tip of his penis. When men squirt out a lot of semen into a woman's vagina, it feels very good and makes them happy. After the penis and vagina feel very good, and the penis squirts out its semen, sex ends.

man and woman having sex

Above is a picture of a man and woman having sex.

When adults create children, lots of semen squirts out from the penis into the vagina. When this happens, the semen sticks to the egg deep in the and changes it into a baby. When adults have sex but don't want to create a baby, they have to make sure the semen does not stick to the egg. To do this, they wrap the penis in a condom or take a special pill which prevents a vagina from getting pregnant even if a lot of semen squirts out of the penis. Adults work hard to make sure they can have sex without creating babies, because sex feels very good. This is how adults think of sex.

When you think about an adult man and an adult woman hugging each other naked and using their penis and vagina to do things like this, you may feel very embarrassed. However, having sex with someone you love feels very good, and this is why adults love having sex. Someday, you will become an adult, and you will want to insert your penis into the vagina of someone you love, or allow the penis of someone you love to enter your vagina. Then you will have sex, and you will want to feel the penis squirting out a lot of semen into the vagina. Someday, everyone should want to have sex with the person they love, use their penis or vagina to feel very good, and squirt lots of semen deep into the vagina in order to make a baby.

Ways to enjoy internal ejaculation.

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In Japan, spring is known as a season of new meetings. This season is thought to contain chances of people to meet new partners of the opposite sex, so I encourage people in Japan to proactively seek new partners during this season. I imagine there are a great number of couples who meet in spring, start dating each other, and then begin engaging in sexual intercourse long before summer begins. For people who have never had sex before, this gives them a lot of time to enjoy sexual pleasure in a variety of positions and get used to sex before summer begins.

Today, we'll be talking about internal ejaculation, which is known in Japanese as "nakadashi." I imagine there are a great many men who fantasize about ejaculating directly inside a vagina.

working hard

Internal ejaculation is when the man inserts his erect penis into the woman's vagina without using a condom, and directly ejaculates semen deep inside it. Originally, internal ejaculation was done in order to impregnate women. The sperm within the semen that is ejaculated mixes with the egg deposited into the woman's womb by the ovaries and creates a baby.

Internal ejaculation itself feels very good. First of all, it allows the man to feel the inside of his woman with nothing but his bare penis. The vaginal membranes stimulate the penis and entice it to piston harder in order to receive more pleasure. Then, the penis continues its thrusts without stopping until it climaxes and ejaculates semen deep within the vagina. Pumping out semen into the vagina of a girl you love and filling it up is a very pleasurable act for a man. Impregnating that same girl with the semen can also fill a man with a great sense of satisfaction.

deep ejaculation

Likewise, internal ejaculation allows the woman to feel the penis of the boy she loves spasming and pumping lots of semen deep inside her, which should fill her with a deep sense of satisfaction. If she truly loves the man, then feeling him impregnate her should fill her with a powerful joy.

Internal ejaculation sex is something that many couples have done in order to create children. It feels very good, which is what brings so many humans to create grandchildren.

There are also many couples who take part in internal ejaculation sex even when they don't want to create children. They do it purely because they seek the intense pleasure that comes from it, and the truth is, even middle schoolers and high schoolers in Japan are internally ejaculating within one another, and quite often, in fact. This is because recently, various different types of contraceptives have been created which are far more effective than condoms.

Here are the six major contraceptives that exist:
1. Condoms
2. Diaphragms
3. IUDs
4. Mirenas
5. Pills
6. Spermicides

Diaphragms, IUDs, and Mirenas are all contraceptive devices that are installed inside the vagina. Contraceptive pills as well as morning after pills also exist. It seems that recently, couples who want to enjoy internal ejaculation often use contraceptive pills. The reason we see so much international ejaculation in adult videos recently is probably due to the mass proliferation of these pills. It's been a long time since they were introduced in Japan, are available publicly, and allow couples to enjoy internal ejaculation lifestyles where semen can be constantly ejaculated into the vagina every day without any risk of pregnancy. Even high school girls can start using pills, which means it may become a general contraceptive method in Japan in the future. Additionally, the basal body temperature method is apparently not very effective when it comes to preventing pregnancy.

pumping

When I have internal ejaculation sex with my girlfriend, I apply a spermicide within her vagina five minutes before sex. Depending on the position, the spermicide may drip out of her vagina, but apparently this doesn't have much effect on the actual contraceptive method itself. If used properly, it really does prevent pregnancy.

As you can see, there are many different contraceptive methods available now, which makes internal ejaculation much more possible than before. I imagine that from here on out, couples that regularly engage in internal ejaculation will increase and enjoy pleasurable, satisfying sex for their entire lives.

Men who are unable to ejaculate inside the vagina.

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During spring break, the sales of adult goods rises greatly in Japan. Perhaps it's because university and high school students take vacations during this time. In Japan, the spring break is longer than the summer break for university students, so I imagine there are a large number of couples in Japan who enjoy their vacation by bucking their hips and pleasuring each other on bed all day. I think there are a great deal of university student couples in Japan who are embracing each other's naked bodies, pushing their genitals hard together, and enjoying sexual climax together every day.

However, in Japan, I also hear about men who have problems ejaculating within the vagina during sexual intercourse. In Japan, it's called "internal ejaculation disorder," or "male vaginal numbness disorder." Despite being able to thrust their erect penises in and out of women's vaginas, these men cannot feel pleasure, and are unable to ejaculate inside.

Normally, if a man inserts his hard penis within a woman's vagina and thrusts it in and out, the friction will stimulate his penis and give him sexual pleasure. Even if he isn't moving, simply being connected with the female genitalia should stimulate him in some way. And, once he reaches the climax of his pleasure, he will ejaculate within the woman. This happens regardless of whether or not the man is wearing a condom.

When couples are trying to procreate, they work hard at having passionate, hard sex night after night, so that the man can repeatedly pump semen deep into the vagina. Not wearing a condom allows the penis to feel the full suction and stickiness of the vaginal walls, which should greatly stimulate the penis and allow it to powerfully ejaculate copious amounts of semen upon orgasm. In this regard, couples who are trying to procreate may be experiencing the most sexually pleasurable period any human being can ever experience.

deep ejaculation

Uniting the genitals and working hard achieve sexual stimulation is necessary for any couples to procreate. Without the ability to ejaculate inside a vagina, it will become difficult for a man to ever have children. Fertilization aside, not being able to ejaculate within a vagina may be a very sad thing to a man, and can impair his sexual enjoyment.

So, then, why do certain men have trouble ejaculating inside a vagina, when it is supposed to feel so good?

The problem seems to lie in how these men masturbate.

Apparently, roughly 15 years ago in Japan, there were no men who suffered from this sort of illness. At that time, it was normal for men to stroke their penises and masturbate while dreaming of sex, along with the aid of images and text. Imagining sex and masturbating was nowhere near as good as actual sex, so they were all able to enjoy sex because it always exceeded their highest expectations.

Now, however, adult videos are easily accessible, and in large quantities. The internet even allows us to see uncensored adult videos with the click of a button. These realistic records of sex are very stimulating to the eye, and can greatly influence virgins who watch these videos constantly and masturbate to them. There are also many different types of adult videos now. Some videos are shot from the male's point of view, allowing the viewer to imagine themselves in certain situations. The actions, the bouncing of the breasts, and the cries of the women are all so real that it allows some men to imagine that they're actually the ones having sex instead. Uncensored adult videos also allow men to see women's vaginas and clitoris, watch powerful, erect penises thrust roughly in and out of wet vaginas, and even see throbbing penis ejaculating sperm up close. To a virgin, who has never seen a real woman's vagina, and never experienced real sex, watching these sorts of videos over and over again and masturbating to them may confuse their brains into thinking that this action is real sex.

Adult videos allow people to experience sex in video and audio, but it's missing some key components. The feeling of embracing a naked woman and the feeling of penetrating a woman with one's penis cannot be experienced through adult videos. And real sex is not merely using a woman's vagina to masturbate one's penis. All that exists during masturbation is visual and audial information and a hand stroking a penis. Training the brain to make the penis ejaculate upon receiving this sort of information may make a penis unable to ejaculate when experiencing the soft sensations of an actual vagina.

real sex

Therefore, I recommend masturbating while reading sexual experience stories or other fictional stories composed of text. (Personally, I enjoy doing this.) I also think there is a problem with stroking a hand harder than the pressure one usually feels when penetrating a vagina. During masturbation, you should not grind your penis against something, but rather, stroke it with moderate strength.

Of course, in order to maximize one's potential of sexual stimulation during real sex, the best thing to do may be to not masturbate at all. But every man wants to masturbate at least a little to feel the pleasure of ejaculation. However, I will repeat, I highly recommend that virgins use only text, not adult videos, in order to masturbate, in order to maximize the pleasure when you finally have sex with a woman you love.

About the Vagina, Part 2.

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Today we will talk about the inner female genitalia.

The inner workings of the vagina are illustrated below.

vagina 2

vagina 3

The vagina is where the male inserts his penis during sexual intercourse. It is made out of soft, elastic membranes that can gently take in any penis, no matter how large. There are many folds on the walls of the vagina, and women in their teens and twenties usually have about 60 folds that are each 1 to 2 millimeters high. During sex, these many folds wrap around the male's erect penis and stimulate the penis as it moves in and out of the vagina. Incidentally, in Japan, there exists the term "meiki," or "exquisite organ," which refers to a vagina that feels exceptionally good upon penetration. These exquisite organs usually have around 100 folds that are each 3 to 4 millimeters high.

During sex, the woman's vagina takes in the man's penis, and the man thrusts his penis in and out in order to receive stimulation. When the penis receives a certain amount of pleasure, it reaches orgasm, upon which a large amount of semen is ejaculated out from the penis deep into the vagina.

After semen fertilizes the egg in the woman's womb, it becomes a place for a baby to grow in until birth. The ovaries, the follicles that produce eggs, are prepared with around one to two million eggs, and deposit them in a cycle of about 28 days. Ovulation is when the eggs move along the fallopian tubes to the womb. If a man and woman engage in sexual intercourse after an egg has been delivered to the womb, it becomes possible for semen to fertilize the egg.

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