Japanese Sex Essentials

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During spring break, the sales of adult goods rises greatly in Japan. Perhaps it's because university and high school students take vacations during this time. In Japan, the spring break is longer than the summer break for university students, so I imagine there are a large number of couples in Japan who enjoy their vacation by bucking their hips and pleasuring each other on bed all day. I think there are a great deal of university student couples in Japan who are embracing each other's naked bodies, pushing their genitals hard together, and enjoying sexual climax together every day.

However, in Japan, I also hear about men who have problems ejaculating within the vagina during sexual intercourse. In Japan, it's called "internal ejaculation disorder," or "male vaginal numbness disorder." Despite being able to thrust their erect penises in and out of women's vaginas, these men cannot feel pleasure, and are unable to ejaculate inside.

Normally, if a man inserts his hard penis within a woman's vagina and thrusts it in and out, the friction will stimulate his penis and give him sexual pleasure. Even if he isn't moving, simply being connected with the female genitalia should stimulate him in some way. And, once he reaches the climax of his pleasure, he will ejaculate within the woman. This happens regardless of whether or not the man is wearing a condom.

When couples are trying to procreate, they work hard at having passionate, hard sex night after night, so that the man can repeatedly pump semen deep into the vagina. Not wearing a condom allows the penis to feel the full suction and stickiness of the vaginal walls, which should greatly stimulate the penis and allow it to powerfully ejaculate copious amounts of semen upon orgasm. In this regard, couples who are trying to procreate may be experiencing the most sexually pleasurable period any human being can ever experience.



Uniting the genitals and working hard achieve sexual stimulation is necessary for any couples to procreate. Without the ability to ejaculate inside a vagina, it will become difficult for a man to ever have children. Fertilization aside, not being able to ejaculate within a vagina may be a very sad thing to a man, and can impair his sexual enjoyment.

So, then, why do certain men have trouble ejaculating inside a vagina, when it is supposed to feel so good?

The problem seems to lie in how these men masturbate.

Apparently, roughly 15 years ago in Japan, there were no men who suffered from this sort of illness. At that time, it was normal for men to stroke their penises and masturbate while dreaming of sex, along with the aid of images and text. Imagining sex and masturbating was nowhere near as good as actual sex, so they were all able to enjoy sex because it always exceeded their highest expectations.

Now, however, adult videos are easily accessible, and in large quantities. The internet even allows us to see uncensored adult videos with the click of a button. These realistic records of sex are very stimulating to the eye, and can greatly influence virgins who watch these videos constantly and masturbate to them. There are also many different types of adult videos now. Some videos are shot from the male's point of view, allowing the viewer to imagine themselves in certain situations. The actions, the bouncing of the breasts, and the cries of the women are all so real that it allows some men to imagine that they're actually the ones having sex instead. Uncensored adult videos also allow men to see women's vaginas and clitoris, watch powerful, erect penises thrust roughly in and out of wet vaginas, and even see throbbing penis ejaculating sperm up close. To a virgin, who has never seen a real woman's vagina, and never experienced real sex, watching these sorts of videos over and over again and masturbating to them may confuse their brains into thinking that this action is real sex.

Adult videos allow people to experience sex in video and audio, but it's missing some key components. The feeling of embracing a naked woman and the feeling of penetrating a woman with one's penis cannot be experienced through adult videos. And real sex is not merely using a woman's vagina to masturbate one's penis. All that exists during masturbation is visual and audial information and a hand stroking a penis. Training the brain to make the penis ejaculate upon receiving this sort of information may make a penis unable to ejaculate when experiencing the soft sensations of an actual vagina.



Therefore, I recommend masturbating while reading sexual experience stories or other fictional stories composed of text. (Personally, I enjoy doing this.) I also think there is a problem with stroking a hand harder than the pressure one usually feels when penetrating a vagina. During masturbation, you should not grind your penis against something, but rather, stroke it with moderate strength.

Of course, in order to maximize one's potential of sexual stimulation during real sex, the best thing to do may be to not masturbate at all. But every man wants to masturbate at least a little to feel the pleasure of ejaculation. However, I will repeat, I highly recommend that virgins use only text, not adult videos, in order to masturbate, in order to maximize the pleasure when you finally have sex with a woman you love.