Japanese Sex Essentials

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The most sensitive spots in a vagina during sex differ by person. Some women are most sensitive in their deepest zones, while others feel the most pleasure with their clitoris, g-spot, uterus orifice, or vaginal orifice. There are many different spots in a vagina that are capable of feeling good. When a woman has her personal best spot stimulated by an erect penis, she becomes capable of experiencing deep pleasure.



When inserting and removing his penis from the vagina of a woman who is most sensitive at her vaginal orifice, the man should buck his hips quickly so that the labia can be stimulated along with the thrusts. Doing this will allow the trunk of the penis to effectively stimulate the vaginal opening.

For women who are most sensitive in their uterus orifices, men should thrust powerfully so the heads of their penis crush the openings, for maximum stimulation.

The clitoris is also a very sensitive spot. In order to effectively stimulate the clitoris while a penis is inside the vagina, the man should insert himself as deeply as he can, and use his pelvis to apply pressure to the clitoris. This should make the woman feel very good. The man can also rotate his hips to apply pressure to the deep zones of the vagina at the same time. Feeling the man she loves stimulating both her clitoris and her deepest zones at the same time should make the woman feel very good.

A man should always strive to figure out where his partner's most sensitive spots are. Incidentally, my girlfriend claims her deepest zones are the most sensitive.



It feels very good to insert an erect penis deep within a woman's vagina, so wanting to make the woman feel just as good is a natural response, I believe. I hope all partners out there can come to experience maximum pleasure together.

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According to American sex research, sex is more pleasurable the shorter it is. I imagine this differs depending on the person, but while some people think that sex is better the longer it is, the truth seems to point in the opposite direction. Interesting, don't you think?

Sexologists did a survey of counseling patients and found that the duration of actual sexual intercourse in which the penis was being pushed in and out of the vagina until it ejaculated that gave the patients the most pleasure was 13 minutes. (Note that this period of time excludes foreplay.)

Many people think that the longer sex is, the better, but looking at this research may change the way we think and lead us to more satisfying sex.



My girlfriend also said that when sex is too long, she gets tired and becomes unable to receive sexual satisfaction. Abstaining for several days and then having sexual intercourse for a shorter period of time and then ejaculating seems to please her the most. Abstaining from ejaculation makes the man's penis very erect and hard, which makes the woman feel better upon penetration, and allows for both parties to experience more lustful, passionate sex. It also increases the pleasure received when copious amounts of semen are ejaculated into the vagina.

Women don't seem to like it when sex lasts too long, so I encourage men to figure out the period of time that brings the most satisfaction and use that data to better their sexual lives. Abstain for the right period of time to allow the maximum amount of semen to build up in the testicles, and then have sex for a short, passionate period of time to release maximum arousal and pleasure when that immense build-up of semen is released into the womb. This may be a very effective technique in increasing women's arousal.

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Right now, many couples are enjoying a pleasurable, satisfying sex life together. Being able to enjoy a good sex life with someone you love is a joyous thing. But for however many couples there are who are enjoying deep, passionate sex lives together, there are also couples whose sex lives are rather shallow.

Usually, men and women will go on dates together during the day, and then join each other in bed at night, connect their genitals, and engage in sexual intercourse. These couples use their sexual organs to stimulate themselves over and over and experience the joy of being in love. Personally, I always have sex with my girlfriend on the weekend. About once or twice a week. We get naked in bed, embrace each other, kiss, and then I thrust my erect penis into my girlfriend's vagina over and over, until I experience a powerful orgasm and ejaculate inside her. Sometimes I use a condom, but even so, the feeling of pumping my penis inside her as I ejaculate is such an amazing sensation, no matter how many times I experience it. During this brief period of time, I feel a sense of love through the union of our genitals. That's the kind of loving sex I have with my girlfriend every week.

Traditionally, sex has been used for a man and a woman to procreate, but there are many people who use it as a way to express love and give pleasure to one another. Some couples have sex multiple times a day, while others only have sex once a week or once a month. The frequency differs depending on the couple. Today, I did a little research on the frequency of sex among couples.



In Japan, there exists a mathematical formula for estimating how much sex a certain demographic has on average. For example, for people in their 20s, the formula would be 20 / 10 x 9 = 18, meaning that people in their 20s have sex 8 times every 10 days. According to this formula, people in their 30s have sex 7 times in 20 days, people in their 40s have sex 6 times in 30 days, and people in their 50s have sex 5 times in 40 days.

Calculating this on a monthly scale would get us: 24 times for people in their 20s, 10 times for people in their 30s, 6 times for people in their 40s, and 4 times for people in their 50s. This formula seems to suggest that people in their 20s have sex at least once a day, and sometimes more than once in a night. Now, this formula is certainly questionable, especially if you try to calculate people in their teens with it. (It would claim that teenagers have sex all day without stopping.) However, teenagers are full of youth, energy, and stamina, and middle schoolers and high schoolers in Japan are certainly enjoying pleasurable sex with each other, so it isn't hard to believe that some couples are having passionate sex all night and bucking their hips until every last drop of young, fresh, thick semen is deposited into the vagina. When I was a teenager, I remember working up a sweat daily with my girlfriend over summer break, and the more time we spent together, the more sex we were able to enjoy.



Of course, there is nothing conclusive about that Japanese mathematical formula. In fact, I believe that the actual numbers are much higher. How often do you think couples actually engage in sexual intercourse? According to my research today, I came up with the following frequencies per year (in Japan):

Teenagers: 31 times
20s: 61 times
30s: 36 times
40s: 41 times
50s: 34 times

It looks like people in their 20s have the most opportunities to have sex. 61 times a year means about once a week on average. I imagine that many people in their 20s in Japan go on dates on their days off and then enjoy sex at night. Now, all of these numbers have been strictly in regard to Japanese sexual habits. Today, my research surprised me when I found out that couples in other countries have even more sex than Japanese people. In America, the average frequency per year is 124 times. This means that most people have sex at least 10 times a month.

Compared with the rest of the world, it looks like Japanese people have sex less on a whole. Japan does have a declining birth rate problem, so I think Japanese people should work harder to find chances to have more sex. Why would you not want more chances to get in bed with the person you love, unite your genitals, and enjoy a powerful, pleasurable orgasm together?

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Sex allows couples to feel good and happy together. Couples all over the world work hard every night to have sex in order to love each other and have children. It seems, however, that people have discovered other good benefits of sex.

Apparently, couples who have frequent sex have higher immune systems, because sexual intercourse increases the amount of the Globulin A antibody in the body, which can be used to prevent colds and influenza. The endorphins and adrenocortical steroids secreted in the brain when a woman reaches an orgasm also prevent headaches. Physically strenuous sex can also burn calories and assist in dieting.



There is also research data that states that couples who have sex where others can see them look 7 to 12 years younger than other people their age. Inserting your penis in and out of your girlfriend while being watched may seem like an embarrassing thought, but the anti-aging effects may just be worth giving it a try if the chance presents itself.

Sex can strengthen the immune system, assist in dieting, and even proving anti-aging effects. It's nice to know that an act which everyone is working hard to do every night has such beneficial effects. It feels good, and it promotes health. Is there a better health method out there? I hope you can all have lots of sex and better your health.

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Yesterday, I went to a love hotel with my girlfriend and had sex.

If you want to have harder, more passionate sex than usual, then I recommend going to a love hotel. At a love hotel, you don't have to worry about being too loud, you can buck your hips and shake the bed as much as you want, and enjoy sex with your partner to your heart's content.



Every day, tons of couples in Japan are putting their time, money, and energy into having wild sex at love hotels. For people who have never used love hotels before, however, I can understand having some reservations.

Every love hotel I've ever visited has basically worked the same way. Here are the directions for how to utilize one.

1. Go inside the love hotel.
2. Look inside to the picture screen that displays each room, then press the button for the room you wish to enter.
3. Pay for the room at the front desk and take the key.
4. Go into the room and enjoy having sex.
5. When it's time to check out, take the key back to the front counter and then leave.

Simple, isn't it? You can go straight to the room without having to come face to face with anyone.

Normally, using a love hotel in the afternoon on a three hour plan costs around 3,000 to 5,000 yen. Staying overnight will cost around double that. On weekdays, the prices can get cheaper, however.

In the room, you will find:
1. A TV that displays adult videos.
2. Music box-style music playing from speakers within the room.
3. A vending machine containing drinks and adult goods.
4. A large bath.

Of course, depending on the hotel, you will find much more than the above four things.



All love hotel rooms have large beds in them, allowing Japanese couples to enjoy wilder sex than usual. Usually, there will be two or three condoms prepared next to the bed. Some hotels will give out more if you ask, but I find it's best to prepare in advance if you wish to have sex many times.

Sometimes, when leaving hotels, I run into other couples who have just finished stimulating each others' genitals and making wild love. They always look very romantic and happy with each other.

If you've never been to a love hotel, I highly encourage it. Please enjoy having wild sex with your lover.