Japanese Sex Essentials

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Recently, I got interested in Polynesian Sex. Have you ever heard of it? Polynesian Sex is a style of sex that's often used in the South Pacific. I'll explain the details below.



Out of a total of five days, penetration is only done on one of them. For the other four days, the couple embraces each other and slowly prepares for the penetration. Men get aroused, which increases their sperm production, and since the two spend so much time close to each other, it makes it easier for them both to climax. This results in heightened pleasure, and seems to be a style of sex that became widespread due to its ability to increase the romance between a couple.

At least one hour is spent on foreplay before sex. After kissing and embracing each other, the man inserts his penis into the woman's vagina. After penetration, the couple embraces for at least thirty minutes without moving, and then the man begins piston movement. Even after achieving orgasm, the couple is supposed to remain connected for as long as possible.

These are the basics of Polynesian Sex.

Creating the proper environment for Polynesian Sex is also important. Before sex, do not eat too much food. Wait a few hours before having sex. However, drinking tea, herbal tea, or eating fruit before sex can be beneficial. I would also recommend turning off your cell phones and creating a calm environment before the sex begins. Try using deep breathing to help calm yourself.



I think that Polynesian Sex exists not to pursue heightened pleasure, but rather to deepen the trust and love between a sexually active couple. Unlike normal sex, it takes its time, and is effective at creating a unique space for a couple.

I want to try and use Polynesian Sex to deepen the love I feel for my girlfriend. If it ends up bearing great fruit, I'll write another article about it later.

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Sometimes when I have sex, my girlfriend has trouble getting wet. Usually after kissing her, her vagina secretes a lot of fluid, but recently, not even folding her has helped her to get wet.

I tried sex using lubricant, which is called "love lotion" in Japanese, but at some point, I ended up using it all, and had to insert my penis into her vagina when it wasn't fully moist. It felt a bit tighter than usual. Depending on what angle I thrusted with, some of my skin would get caught on her walls, which hurt. She also seemed to be in a bit of pain. After forcing myself in and out of her for a bit, she ended up getting wet, but it didn't go as smoothly as I had hoped.

Having sex with a woman whose vagina is completely moist and wet is a completely different experience.



With a wet vagina, a penis can slide in and out with ease, allowing for smooth, pleasurable piston movements. If a vagina is not wet, the penis will suffer very strong friction against the dry walls of the vagina, which seem to stick to it. (This may be pleasurable to some men, but...) In the end, it makes sex become very unnatural and awkward. Sex is something that should be enjoyed by both parties, and I don't want to see my girlfriend in pain. It's better when she's very wet.

Yesterday, when we had sex, she was wet and gloopy as usual, so we were able to have good, passionate sex. The wetter she got, the harder I was able to thrust within her, which only made her more wet. To me, that's the best possible result.

I'm not sure why she couldn't get wet for that short period of time. Perhaps it was due to a health or mental-related reason. Or maybe it was my fault.

If you're trying to have sex and the woman just doesn't seem to get wet, I recommend using lotion.

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During sex, men move their hips and penis in order to gain pleasure. Depending on how they move, they can also give their partners pleasure.

Today, I'll be introducing a few different ways to move during sex.

Forward and backward

In Japan, we refer to this as "piston movement." In this type, the man thrusts his penis in and out of the vagina, creating pleasure through the friction as it rubs against the vaginal walls. I usually begin sex using this type.

Diagonal movement

In this type, the penis is inserted into the vagina at an angle and thrust in and out to gain a different kind of frictional pleasure. This style makes it possible to powerfully stimulate a woman's G-spot, making it helpful in giving a woman an orgasm.

Rotation movement

This is actually a more important type of movement than some may think. In this type, a man rotates his penis in a circle while inserted within the vagina. This allows for more frictional coverage of the vaginal walls, and gives the woman powerful stimulation throughout her entire vagina. This type of movement was also written about in the Kama Sutra as being an effective way to impregnate a woman.

Pressurized movement

By inserting your penis deep into a woman's vagina and pushing it down as far as it can go, you also push the base of your penis together with the woman's vaginal opening. By doing this, you can also inadvertently stimulate the woman's clitoris, giving her deep, powerful pleasure that is quite different from piston movement. For the man, this movement does not create friction as powerful as the piston movement, so it may be a good one to use after doing a lot of piston movements, when a man feels like he's about to ejaculate, but wants to try and delay it.

By working together and trying these different types of movements, couples can increase their pleasure during sex. For those of you who have only tried piston movement so far, I highly recommend it.

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Breasts. The symbol of motherhood. I heard that women with small breasts are popular in Japan these days, but I wonder...breasts are so soft, nice, and warm...personally, I prefer bigger ones.



How to fondle breasts.

When a woman's breasts are fondled while a man is pumping his penis into her, it feels good. A woman's nipples are one of her erogenous zones, and the second easiest to arouse after the clitoris.

There are many different ways to fondle breasts, and it also depends on the woman's preferences. I think as a general rule, though, fondling both in a rhythmical fashion feels good. It makes the woman feel good. Start out soft, then as the sex gets more intense, start squeezing them harder, so that you both get more excited and have better sex. And don't just squeeze them, but try applying pressure to them from different angles.



How to fondle nipples.

When I fondle my partner's nipples, I often get too excited and end up touching them to hard. Nipples are delicate. It's better to touch them slowly. Lightly exploring them will make the woman feel better, and make them erect.

I like tasting my partner's nipples, so I often suck on them. (Before I had sex, I thought that if you suck on any woman's nipples, that milk would come out. （;´Д｀）) Just like when I touch her nipples, I trace them lightly with my tongue and caress them.

My partner also likes licking my nipples, but it seems that men don't have as many erogenous nerves running from their nipples, and many men feel like they're being tickled instead of aroused. But lately, thanks to my partner, I've started to really enjoy it...

Once her nipples become erect, I try plucking at them, pulling them, flicking them, pushing them, and teasing them with my fingers and tongue. When I fondle my partner's nipples while we kiss during foreplay, she becomes very wet. It feels very good, and helps create the mood. Fondling the breasts is essential for good sex.

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Many couples enjoy S&M, and according to their fetishes, there exist many different styles and methods of having sex in this fashion. Personally, I'm not too learned on this subject, so I can't go into too much detail.



Fertility is strengthened when humans are in danger.

When animals feel they're in danger, their fertility rates rise temporarily in order to keep their genes from dying out. In Japanese, we have a term called "tsukare mara," which is used to describe a phenomenon that happens with very exhausted males when they suddenly get erections for no apparent reason. This happens when a man is extremely worn out, and his body feels endangered and is desperate to make his genes survive. This is why men can get erections even when they're at the brink of collapsing.

When people feel pain during S&M, they may feel endangered, which strengthens their fertility. In some cases, this physical phenomenon can even manifest itself in sexual pleasure, which is why some people get sexual gratification from pain.



S&M and impregnation.

If I lightly scratch my partner when she is aroused, she seems to enjoy it. Other people may not consider this true S&M, but by lightly spanking your partner on the rear, and sending pain signals to their body, you can actually give them sexual pleasure. If you want to impregnate your partner, you may wish to employ this method as a way of strengthening their fertility. Insert your penis, buck your hips, then lightly spank your partner and ejaculate hard deep within their womb. It may just work.

Make sure you only engage in S&M when your partner is aroused, though. Otherwise you'll only be hurting them.