Japanese Sex Essentials

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Ejaculation.

Some may say it's the greatest physical pleasure a man can receive.

Am I the only man who feels a difference in an intensity depending on when I orgasm? I have a feeling that the time I spent abstaining influences this, but I also feel like that's not the entire equation.

With abstinence, sexual desire is increased. Abstaining for sex for a period of time makes the penis harder during its next erection, and also increases the excitement felt during sexual intercourse. However, I don't think that abstaining from sex necessarily increases the pleasure felt during ejaculation. The longer the abstinence, the more semen builds up inside the male body. When I ejaculation after a long period of abstinence, I can feel a large amount of semen traveling from my prostate to my penis and then being ejaculated deep inside my girlfriend. In those moments, the pleasure from the pumping sensation is so powerful that I can't really feel the usual pleasure I get from my prostate.

When I ejaculate twice in a short period of time, I find that not as much semen is ejaculated from my penis, which allows me to better enjoy the pleasure that comes from my prostate during ejaculation. But if I ejaculate too much in a short time period, it lowers my sexual desire, so sex isn't as exciting as usual.

Therein lies the rub. What is the best period of abstinence in order to experience the strongest pleasure possible during ejaculation? For myself, I imagine it's about two or three days of abstinence. But perhaps I'm the only one who has trouble feeling prostate pleasure during a powerful ejaculation.



If you're not so much worried about pleasure or excitement, then I imagine that 3 or 4 days of abstinence would be best. If it's too short, it doesn't give your body enough time to build up enough semen, and if it's too long, the semen dies, and you become unable to ejaculate fresh semen. In that regard, for men who wish to make their partners pregnant, I recommend 3 or 4 days of abstinence.

I'm also curious to know what everyone's personal best period of abstinence is.

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In Japan, there's something called "Hime-Hajime." In slang terms, it means having your first sex of the year, but it actually comes from traditional Japanese culture.

A long time ago, rice gruel was called "Hime-Ii," or "princess food," and eating the first rice gruel of the year on January 2nd was called "Hime-Hajime," or "first princess."

There are many other explanations for where the term came from, but these days, it's often used by people when describing how their first sex of the year went.



This year, I wasted no time in having my Hime-Hajime with my girlfriend on January 1. I imagine this isn't uncommon for people who spend New Year's with their lover.

We didn't have "toshi-koshi sex," though, which is when two people have sex on the cusp just as the new year begins. We spent that time eating the soba noodles my girlfriend had prepared for the new year.

I hope you all have a very nice New Year.

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In Japan, the sales of adult goods multiply by three times in December. In this last month of the year, the majority of Japan is looking forward to having romantic sex on Christmas.

In Japan, Christmas Eve is treated as a night to be spent alone with your loved one. It's only natural, then, that lots of couples want to have sweet, romantic sex on that evening.

Of course, before sex, creating the right atmosphere is important. The holiday nature of Christmas contributes a great deal to this, but it's also important to utilize foreplay, kissing, pillow talk, and some adult goods to help create the right atmosphere.

With two people who truly love each other, it shouldn't be hard to naturally create the right mood for romantic sex. Before I have sex with my girlfriend, we start talking, and before I know it, she's wet, and I'm erect. Usually we can go right into pleasurable sex without any foreplay.

Sometimes, when I know she's very wet, I'll use my fingers and tongue to stimulate her vagina and tease her. This makes her beg me to penetrate her, and increases the excitement for both of us.



Japanese Christmas Sex. For some, it's sweet, romantic sex, and for others, it's passionate, arousing sex. Please use this as food for thought as you plan your own Christmas.

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It'll be Christmas soon. What are your plans for Christmas?

In Japan, Christmas is seen as a holiday for children and for lovers. Children receive presents, while lovers spend the night having sex. They even say that in Japan, the period of time between 9 pm and 3 am on Dec. 24 is when the most people in the country are having sex in unison. They call it the "Six Hours of Sex."

To sexually active people in Japan, Christmas is a day of sex.

I plan to have sex with my girlfriend on Christmas. That's what I did last year, too. I can't wait to spend sweet time together with her.



Did you know that December 22 is World Sex Day? Apparently it was designated a while back to encourage sexual happiness and world peace.

On December 22, 24, and 25, Japanese couples work hard at sexually satisfying each other. I hope everyone can achieve sexual satisfaction on these nights.

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I know it's been a while since my last update. I wasn't able to use the internet a while, but that problem's been fixed, so it's back to updating!

Of course, even while I was off the internet, I kept having sex with my girlfriend. Since I got a bit busy, we couldn't have as many dates as usual, but she would often come over to my house to see me.

When we have sex in my house, I always worry about the noise. When I insert my erect penis into her vagina, wiggle it around, and slam her hard, she always screams in a very loud voice, and I can't help but worry about it.

Of course, sex always feels better when she screams during it. That's one of the good things about love hotels in Japan. There, you don't need to worry about how loud you scream.

The other day, I took my girlfriend to a love hotel called Mint in Ikebukuro. We chose a Japanese-style room there. It was a bit wide.

The moment we walked into the room, my girlfriend had already gotten wet, so I was able to penetrate her immediately.



This time I became erect and entered her from behind. In this position, I was able to insert my penis very deeply inside of her, and it was much easier to wiggle it around. It felt very good.

I made sure to insert the penis at a it of a sharp angle so that I could use its tip to stimulate one of her most sensitive areas. This involves me pointing my penis a bit upwards as I insert it.

Once I was in the right position, I started bucking my hips violently and stimulating her. Of course, it didn't take long for her to start screaming very loudly. Then, I ejaculated.

After having sex, and pulling out from her, she collapsed. Apparently, she really likes having her G-spot stimulated with my penis. I may have stimulated her a bit too much. After she collapsed, she didn't move an inch for a while. I really enjoy watching her like that, though.