Japanese Sex Essentials

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A love hotel that people line up for.

Last weekend, I went to a love hotel with my girlfriend called MINT in Ikebukuro, Tokyo. Since it was the weekend, there was actually a line of people waiting to get in. I thought love hotels were places where couples went so that they could have sex in secret.

For some reason, we ended up picking the same room as last time. It had a karaoke machine and a steam sauna in it. We didn't use either, though.

Usually when we go to love hotels, we start having sex immediately, but this time we took it slow. We watched TV for a bit, cuddled, kissed each other, fondled each other...gradually getting more and more excited. It was very hot that day, so before we came in, we had both sweated a lot, so we took a shower before sex.

Baths in love hotels.

Baths in love hotels contain shampoo, conditioner, body soap, and also a special soap for genitals. I've always found this soap at all the hotels my girlfriend and I've been to. This time, however, there was an additional type of soap called an "elegant soap" there. If you wash your penis with this and then dry it off...it'll look really shiny and fresh.



Sex at a love hotel, for the first time in a week.

After taking showers, we got into the bed naked, kissed each other, and hugged each other tight...gradually, things heated up, and I became fully erect, and she became very wet. Then I inserted my penis. It was my first time entering her in a week, so our sex this time was comparatively rough.

After starting in missionary, we switched to cowgirl, then doggy, where I gripped her rear with my hands and quickly bucked my hips. Rolling my penis around inside her in a circular motion in this position made her scream very loudly, and so I began to stimulate her clitoris as well. As she continued to scream, my pleasure reached its climax and I ejaculated.

It was our first time having sex in a week, and we were in a love hotel to boot, so we had some very rough sex. I think she enjoyed it as much as I did. After we finished, I saw that the sheets of the bed were stained with her fluids. I'm glad we were both able to have such good sex.

I highly recommend love hotels.

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In Japan there are hotels called "love hotels" that are designed specifically for couples looking to have sex outside the home. Yesterday, I went to one with my partner. The love hotel was called MINT, in Ikebukuro. It's a pretty popular hotel, so much that there's even a line of couples waiting to get in on weekends.

Love hotel sex is exciting.

I really like having sex at love hotels. Maybe it's because I'm having sex in a new environment, but it's stimulating. I think going to love hotels is a good idea for couples who are getting bored of having sex at home. My partner also gets more excited and wetter than usual when we go to a love hotel. Of course, I also get 100% erect. It IS a hotel made for having sex, after all. The more you think about that, the more exciting it becomes.



You can have wild sex at love hotels.

Sometimes when I have sex at home, I get worried that my partner's screaming and the rattling of the bed will be heard by our neighbors. Actually, I'm sure they've probably already heard it...at love hotels, though, you don't have to worry about any of that. You can enjoy good sex to your heart's content. I don't need to worry about my partner's voice no matter how loud it gets, and I can even let out some noise myself. That makes our sex even wilder. This is how love hotels can add to good sex.

Of course, love hotels only exist in Japan. The person who thought up this idea was really a genius.

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Everyone has their own way of having sex. Which is the best, though?



Before foreplay...

I rarely have sex with my partner immediately once I see her. I think this is the same for other people, too...going on a date before having sex makes things more exciting. When you're outside, you talk about normal things, but as soon as both of you become alone in a room, you instantly lust for another. I like that gap.

When we're alone, I instantly kiss her. At first we only peck, but gradually things become heavier, and soon we're making out. This makes both of us even more excited.

Getting excited...

Once we both get excited, I take off her clothes and begin fondling, kissing and sucking her breasts. When I do this, her nipples get hard, and soon she can't take it any longer. Then she starts fondling my penis, and we move into a 69 position. When this happens, my penis gets very hard. It gets so hard I could slap someone with it.

When I have sex with my partner, we finish foreplay very quickly, because we can hardly wait. Even before we start foreplay, she's already very wet and 100% ready for my penis to enter. My penis is also completely erect. I get the feeling that our foreplay is getting shorter and shorter.



Insert the penis and begin sex.

When neither of us can take it any longer, I insert my erect penis into her vagina. We usually start from missionary. Sometimes, though, she inserts it in herself from cowgirl position. I buck my hips, move my penis around in her vagina, and try to make her feel better and better. Just inserting my penis inside her is heaven for me.

As my bucking continues, we hungrily kiss and lust for one another. Our bodies are perfectly entwined. This is my favorite part of sex. I think that sex where you can feel love is the absolute best kind of sex. You don't get this kind of connection with loveless sex.

Vocalization during sex is also essential. The difference in silent sex and sex where your partner is saying "It feels so good" and "I love you" is great. I like making my partner say slightly embarrassing things. If you use your imagination a little, you can start having even better sex.

When we have sex we change from missionary to sitting, then to cowgirl, then to back, and try many different positions. She doesn't like when I pull my penis out of her, so we try to change without coming apart as much as possible. I also prefer switching while leaving my penis inside.



Then, ejaculation.

Have sex by bucking your hips harder and harder until you can't hold back anymore. When this happens to me, I try to avoid ejaculating by changing positions. I prefer to ejaculate in the missionary position, while holding on tight to my partner.

Before I ejaculate, I tell my partner, "I'm going to cum." Then she says "It's OK. Cum in me." I like hearing this. Then my bucking gets even harder, and I ejaculate deep inside her. When I ejaculate, my penis throbs and squirts out semen, and she can feel it too.

When I ejaculate inside like this once in a while, it really feels incredible. My mind goes so white it feels like I might die. The feeling of delivering my semen straight into my partner's womb is just too good.

After ejaculation.

Once I ejaculate, I wait a bit and then pull out my penis. It's always covered in my semen and my partner's fluid, as is the entrance to her vagina. So I wipe it with a tissue for her, and then wipe off my penis.

Then, we lay naked for a while, enjoying the after-effects of good sex. I like this time too. It feels so romantic when we kiss and hug each other like this.

That's how my sex is, at least. I'd like to know how you all approach sex as well. Most of the people around me are virgins, so I don't have many opportunities to ask questions like this...

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Lately, Japanese society has seen a downward shift in the age that people first have sex. When I was in elementary school, I didn't hear any talk about love, and especially not sex. I don't think kids started talking about things like that until they became middle schoolers.

Impregnation is possible even among elementary schoolers.

Once their secondary sex characteristics appear, females start having their periods, and males start ejaculating -- which means there are rare cases when elementary and middle school children become pregnant. I remember hearing one story about a sixth grade girl who had sex with a boy in middle school, got pregnant, and then got an abortion. I wonder what percent of Japanese children are actually having sex? I remember seeing a graph in my own sex ed booklet displaying people's ages and what percent of them had had sex. Do schools make elementary school students fill out those kind of graphs these days?

Ejaculation awakens males to sex.

It seems like most men awaken to sex when they first ejaculate. I think the same can be said for myself. I'm pretty sure I first ejaculated when I was in sixth grade. After I ejaculated for the first time, the next thing I knew, I was thinking about wanting to have sex.

Children learn how to have sex online.

The influence of the internet is massive these days. All you need to do is type "sex" into a search engine, and a sea of results will appear - most of them being porn sites. There is no lack of information on sex these days. Sex wisdom and information can be found anywhere, especially on the internet. That's one of the reasons I never had any problems when I first had sex.



Society's image of sex must change.

I think that if things are left like this, then the average age of first times will only become younger and younger. Obviously, if a child is born, then someone has to raise it. Can an elementary or a middle schooler raise a child? They may be able to create them, but I highly doubt they could raise one well.

Compared to Japan, Sweden has a very open stance toward sex, and apparently, they teach elementary school children all about sex in school. However, at this point, the children don't start thinking things like "sex is bad." The entire country is very open toward sex, and by getting rid of the "sinful" image sex has, Sweden has been able to lower its sex crime rate and keep the average age of first times from getting lower.

In Japan, the media's information and ideas about sex precede those of true sex education. Therefore, I think it could only be for the better if elementary school children in Japan were given proper sex education.

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When you think of female orgasms, you probably think of the G-spot and the clitoris.

The clitoris is the small protuberance outside the vaginal orifice. It can be fondled during sex. The G-spot is an area inside the vagina. It can be fondled with a finger or the penis in order to make a woman orgasm.

There's one other type of orgasm, however -- the cervical orgasm, or "Voltio orgasm" in Spanish and Japanese, which happens around the entrance to the womb, or the cervix.



When you have sex with your partner in doggy style, you can really penetrate this area. When I have sex with my partner, I like to rub my penis up against her cervix. That's how you cause this type of orgasm.

In order to achieve this orgasm, your penis needs to be able to reach your partner's orgasm, which requires a certain degree of length, and the proper sexual position. I think that as long as your penis is longer than your fingers, you should be fine. I recommend trying this orgasm in doggy style, because that position will make it very easy to insert your penis deep into your partner's vagina.

Just like the clitoris and the g-spot, the cervix provides intense pleasure, but it also provides the woman with a unique sense of happiness. According to women who've experienced this, the feeling of being filled completely with their partner as they orgasm is a special pleasure that races through their entire body.

If you buck your hips a lot and hit the cervix particularly hard during sex, it may hurt your partner. If this persists, you may want to try using your finger to stimulate your partner's cervix. Once you push your finger all the way in, you should eventually feel a hard protuberance -- that's the cervix.