Japanese Sex Essentials

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The "saddling" position, or "honma gake" in Japanese, is another one of the 48 traditional Japanese positions. It's also referred to as the reverse sitting position.



When I have sex with my partner, we use this position. We usually go in this order: missionary, sitting, doggy, then she switches into this position.

Most of the time, I buck my hips hard from behind. It's a nice position to use before or after doggy style.

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There seem to be a lot of people searching for words like internal ejaculation and cum in vagina on Japanese search engines.

How about you all? Do you like internal ejaculation?

I love it.



Let me explain the reasons why.
1. It allows me to feel the inside of my partner's vagina directly with my penis.
2. I don't have to worry about a condom getting stuck or ripping, so I can buck my hips as I please.

Humans have sex because of their animal instincts which command them to procreate...so obviously this act will feel good to us.

My partner also prefers it when I don't use a condom.

Without a condom to stand in the way, it really feels like we've become one.

When I ejaculate inside her, my mind goes white...that's how good it feels.

Of course, pregnancy is always a concern. I only ejaculate inside when she's using some kind of contraceptive.

Then again, theoretically, I really am ejaculating inside her because I want to impregnate her. Someday, I hope to insert my penis deep inside her and deliver lots of semen straight to her womb when she isn't using a contraceptive.

Once we get married, that is.

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When you think of female orgasms, you probably think of the G-spot and the clitoris.

The clitoris is the small protuberance outside the vaginal orifice. It can be fondled during sex. The G-spot is an area inside the vagina. It can be fondled with a finger or the penis in order to make a woman orgasm.

There's one other type of orgasm, however -- the cervical orgasm, or "Voltio orgasm" in Spanish and Japanese, which happens around the entrance to the womb, or the cervix.



When you have sex with your partner in doggy style, you can really penetrate this area. When I have sex with my partner, I like to rub my penis up against her cervix. That's how you cause this type of orgasm.

In order to achieve this orgasm, your penis needs to be able to reach your partner's orgasm, which requires a certain degree of length, and the proper sexual position. I think that as long as your penis is longer than your fingers, you should be fine. I recommend trying this orgasm in doggy style, because that position will make it very easy to insert your penis deep into your partner's vagina.

Just like the clitoris and the g-spot, the cervix provides intense pleasure, but it also provides the woman with a unique sense of happiness. According to women who've experienced this, the feeling of being filled completely with their partner as they orgasm is a special pleasure that races through their entire body.

If you buck your hips a lot and hit the cervix particularly hard during sex, it may hurt your partner. If this persists, you may want to try using your finger to stimulate your partner's cervix. Once you push your finger all the way in, you should eventually feel a hard protuberance -- that's the cervix.

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There are two versions of the missionary position: when the man and woman are embracing, and when the man sits upright.

The embracing position is very romantic. In this position, you can kiss your partner and slowly move in and out, feeling every inch of each other.

When I have sex with my partner, I always take a little time to do missionary as illustrated below.



When I buck my hips and move my penis around within my partner in this position, my penis hits her G-spot perfectly, and she screams out in pleasure every time. I also recommend lifting up your partner's legs when you try this.

It's easier to slide your penis against the underside of your partner's stomach in this position, so women really enjoy it.

It's hard to enter from this angle when you're embracing one another, so I recommend trying this. And since it's the missionary position, you can watch your partner's expression closely, and it's easy to move in and out. Definitely a position to use regularly.

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Internal ejaculation.
To be honest, every time I have sex with my partner, I want to ejaculate inside her. And I've already done so numerous times.

When I ejaculate inside her, my penis spasms, using a great deal of my body's energy in order to pour out semen into my partner's vagina. The only way I know to express this feeling is to say that my head goes completely white. In that moment, it feels like we are truly one.



The feeling of inserting my penis deep in her vagina, the warm of her insides, and the sensation as I ejaculate my semen inside...it's truly amazing.

However, ejaculating normally can lead to pregnancy.
We're both still students...so we can't have children just yet. That's right. Internal ejaculation can only be done when you intend to impregnate your partner.

This isn't necessarily the case if you use some type of contraceptive, though.

The Basal Body Temperature Method
In this method, the woman measures her body's temperature and predicts her ovulation days. I think it's effective, but not perfect. It may be best used in conjuction with another contraceptive.

Vaginal Spermicide
This spermicide can be placed in the vagina before sex in order to kill off sperm that enter afterwards. I use this once in a while when I have sex with my partner. It has an 80% success rate, but of course that includes people who are using it incorrectly (or who don't have the patient to administer it properly) so I'm sure that it's more effective when used properly.

Low-Dose Oral Contraceptive
Otherwise known as "the pill." Usually a doctor gives it to a patient. A woman will have to take this pill every day, but it has a close to 100% rate of success. When women first take pills, they may receive some side-effects similar to morning sickness, but those soon go away, and pills can also help to get rid of painful periods.

There are also contraceptive patches, like the Ortho Evra, but they're really expensive.

The bottom line is, using contraceptives when having sex is absolutely essential.