Japanese Sex Essentials

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When women get aroused, certain fluids are secreted within their vaginas.

If you fondle your partner's vagina with your finger before sex, you'll notice it gets very wet with sexual fluid. When I pull my penis out from my partner's vagina during sex, I can feel fluid drip down from her moist entrance. It always surprises me how wet she can get.




Fluid secreted at the entrance to the vagina.

When women are sexually aroused, a viscous, transparent fluid is secreted from the Bartholin's glands, two glands at the opening to the vagina. This fluid can also be referred to as Bartholin's gland fluid.

Fluid secreted deep within the vagina.

Just like with the Bartholin's glands, when a woman is sexually aroused, a thicker, transparent or white fluid is secreted near the entrance to her womb.

When these two fluids are secreted, the penis can easily enter the vagina. Stimulating your partner a lot during foreplay can help her feel better and allow easier insertion of your penis.

Fluid protects the vagina.

Fluid is secreted to let the penis enter more easily. And since it can go in easily, that means that friction between the penis and the vagina can happen without any risk of physical damage.

I often hear stories about men who force sex on women, then feel their moist vaginas and say "See? You wanted it!" Even when women are raped, however, their vaginas secrete fluid. This happens not because they're aroused, however, but as an instinctual way to protect their vaginas from damage when a penis is forced in. This is an automatic defense from the vagina. So just because a woman is moist, it doesn't necessarily mean she loves you...

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Everyone has their own favorites when it comes to sex positions. Personally, I like sitting and doggy style.



Men are more aroused when their contact with their partner is limited.

When men have sex, the less of their skin is actually touching their partner, the more they're aroused. This is due to an animal instinct that lies deep within all men, telling them to have sex with as many women as possible in order to give birth to many children.

Because their instincts tell men to have sex with as many women as possible, it makes them want to limit the amount of love they give to one specific woman, and so it becomes essential to limit the amount of skin that touches as much as possible.

Because this instinct still resides deep within men's DNA, limiting the amount of skin contact during sex still turns them on. Women, on the other hand, want to completely monopolize their men and receive all of their love, so they tend to feel their orgasms the most in the missionary position.

Sex positions that limit skin contact.

If you want a position that limits the amount of contact you make with your partner, I recommend doggy style. You can insert your penis very deep, but hardly touch your partner in the process. Aside from back, upright missionary is also popular.

This is unrelated, but when I first had sex, I couldn't insert my penis in the back position. For some reason, I couldn't figure out the right angle to insert it from.

Men are prone to cheat?

As written above, there is an instinct in men's DNA that urges them to have sex with as many women as possible to propagate their genes. Therefore, all men may possess a desire to cheat deep within their subconscious. And that desire most likely influences them more than some woman who they meet up with for a short time and can procreate with.

But we cannot forget that instinct and reason are separate entities. Humans can suppress their instinct by using logic and reason. Men who lose themselves to their instincts, cheat, and sadden their lovers have weak reasoning skills.

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Have any of you ever had sex during a woman's period? I have sex with my partner even when she's on hers.


Being on her period only lowers the woman's chances of getting pregnant.

I've heard many stories about people ejaculating inside their partners while they're on their periods thinking that it would keep them from getting pregnant. I've also done it myself. (And it did feel good...) But the question is, can a woman actually get pregnant while she's on her period?

The answer is yes. It's possible to impregnate a woman while she's on her period. Ejaculated semen can live from four to ten days inside a woman's vagina and womb, and it's possible that a new egg could be impregnated during that term. Also, with women whose periods don't always come at the same times, it's impossible to accurately predict when she will or won't ovulate.

Sex encourages ovulation.

When mammals have sex, the stimulation causes more hormones to be secreted within their bodies, encouraging ovulation. Humans are also mammals, so it's possible that sex could encourage ovulation within us as well. This means that period or not, having sex always means there's a chance the woman could get pregnant.

Period sex is unsanitary.

When a woman goes on her period, her endometrium gets torn off and her cervix opens wider than usual. In other words, it's practically defenseless against viruses and bacteria. This is another good reason to avoid sex while a woman's on her period.

If you still want to have sex with your partner while she's on her period, then I suggest using another contraceptive method. But thinking of how unsanitary it is, I really feel it's best to avoid it altogether.

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Which areas do you focus on when you're having sex with a female and want to make her feel even better? Read the following, and you'll be able to please your partner better.



The protuberance outside the entrance to the vagina.

This protuberance is called the clitoris. When humans are embryos, this protuberance stays like it is for females and develops into a penis for males. However, a clitoris is actually even more sensitive than a penis. I always fondle my partner's when we have sex. She says it feels so good she feels like she's going to go insane. By fondling the clitoris before penetration, you can increase blood flow to the vagina and make it easier for your penis to enter. Stimulating the clitoris during foreplay can be very effective.

The G-spot inside the vagina.

About 4cm inside the vagina lies the G-spot. By fondling this upper side area of the vagina with your finger or penis, you can increase the female's pleasure. The G-spot is the equivalent to a male's prostate, so a G-spot orgasm is very simialr to ejaculation. So it must feel very good. You can't have sex and ignore the G-spot. Also, if you stimulate this area enough, your partner may even ejaculate a sticky sort of substance similar to urine. This is called "squirting," or "shiofuki" in Japanese. Apparently, however, this ejaculation is completely unrelated to physical pleasure.

The cervical area near the womb.

This is called the cervical area, or the "Voltio" area in Spanish and Japanese. If you insert your penis in deep enough, you should be able to rub it against a hard protuberance. By rubbing against it enough, you can cause a cervical orgasm. Unlike the other, direct female orgasms, cervical orgasms fill the female's entire body, giving her a very special feeling. If you end up hitting this area too hard and hurting your partner, however, you may want to try fondling it with your finger instead.

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The deeper you insert your penis, the better it feels.
When I have sex with my partner, I always want to feel closer to her. Naturally, I try to insert my penis deeper and deeper into her vagina. Instinct-wise, the deeper a man inserts his penis, the more likely his semen is to reach his partner's womb, so it makes sense.

You can insert your penis in deep in the doggy style position.
In the doggy position, it's very easy to insert your penis deep, so much in fact that your partner will probably be able to feel your penis touching her womb. More than anything, however, the feeling of having your penis fully embraced by your partner's vagina is truly amazing.



It's easier to insert your penis deeper when your partner raises her legs during missionary.
If you want to insert your penis in missionary, then have your partner raise her legs as you enter. It'll let you enter a lot deeper than if she stretches her legs out. Raise her legs up so that you can enter deep, and then try moving your penis around. When I do this, my partner makes all sorts of cute noises...

Warm, pleasurable sex.
When you try this in missionary position, you can hold your partner close, look deep into her, embrace her, and kiss her...this is the easiest position for women enjoy, so warm, pleasurable sex is guaranteed.