Japanese Sex Essentials

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When I have sex with my girlfriend, I often use the sitting position. The sitting position allows us to face each other while my penis is still inside her. Since we're facing each other, we can hug each other, kiss each other, and my girlfriend can move her hips harder than usual.



You'll notice in the above illustration that the woman's legs have been lifted up over the man's. Apparently, having sex in this position allows the penis to hit the G-spot at a very good angle. When I tried it with my girlfriend, she moaned in pleasure. And when that happens, I end up bucking my hips faster than usual. It also makes the vagina feel tighter around the penis, so it feels very good. In Japanese, this position is called the "shishi mai," or dance of the lion.

It seems that lifting the woman's thighs up so that they touch her body is what allows the penis to go in so deeply in this position. It's the same sort of logic as the missionary position. The more a woman can bend her legs, the better sex she can have.