Japanese Sex Essentials

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Internal ejaculation.
To be honest, every time I have sex with my partner, I want to ejaculate inside her. And I've already done so numerous times.

When I ejaculate inside her, my penis spasms, using a great deal of my body's energy in order to pour out semen into my partner's vagina. The only way I know to express this feeling is to say that my head goes completely white. In that moment, it feels like we are truly one.



The feeling of inserting my penis deep in her vagina, the warm of her insides, and the sensation as I ejaculate my semen inside...it's truly amazing.

However, ejaculating normally can lead to pregnancy.
We're both still students...so we can't have children just yet. That's right. Internal ejaculation can only be done when you intend to impregnate your partner.

This isn't necessarily the case if you use some type of contraceptive, though.

The Basal Body Temperature Method
In this method, the woman measures her body's temperature and predicts her ovulation days. I think it's effective, but not perfect. It may be best used in conjuction with another contraceptive.

Vaginal Spermicide
This spermicide can be placed in the vagina before sex in order to kill off sperm that enter afterwards. I use this once in a while when I have sex with my partner. It has an 80% success rate, but of course that includes people who are using it incorrectly (or who don't have the patient to administer it properly) so I'm sure that it's more effective when used properly.

Low-Dose Oral Contraceptive
Otherwise known as "the pill." Usually a doctor gives it to a patient. A woman will have to take this pill every day, but it has a close to 100% rate of success. When women first take pills, they may receive some side-effects similar to morning sickness, but those soon go away, and pills can also help to get rid of painful periods.

There are also contraceptive patches, like the Ortho Evra, but they're really expensive.

The bottom line is, using contraceptives when having sex is absolutely essential.

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The condom is the most widely-used contraceptive in Japan. The nominal rate of preventive success is 80%, but people who used their condoms incorrectly are most likely included within this calculation. If condoms are used correctly, they will most definitely prevent impregnation, so make sure you know how to use one properly.

Essential Equipment: A condom, a partner to have sex with, and an erect penis.



First, remove the condom from the package.
Make sure not to damage the condom when you break the package open.



Place the back side of the condom against the head of your erect penis and then slide it down. Make sure no air slides into the reservoir tip of the condom as you do this.



Roll the condom down and fit it on your penis. Be careful with this step, or else the condom may get caught on something on the way down. I sometimes accidentally wrap my own pubic hair up in the condom, so be careful of that too.



Slowly insert your condom-equipped penis into your partner's vagina. If air slips in during this time, it may cause the condom to break when you buck your hips. Make sure the vagina is well-lubricated to prevent this.



When a man reaches a climax in his pleasure during sex, he ejaculates. If you want to decrease the chances of pregnancy even more, then it's best to remove your penis from the vagina before you ejaculate. Personally, however, I prefer ejaculating inside my partner.



Once you ejaculate, remove your penis from the vagina as quickly as possible. Don't try to keep having sex after you ejaculate. The condom could break, and the semen could spill out into the vagina. Make sure you press down on the end of the condom as you pull out, so that it doesn't slip off.



Once you take the condom off your penis, tie it so that the semen doesn't spill out, and then dispose of it in a trash can.