Japanese Sex Essentials

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Everyone has their own way of having sex. Which is the best, though?



Before foreplay...

I rarely have sex with my partner immediately once I see her. I think this is the same for other people, too...going on a date before having sex makes things more exciting. When you're outside, you talk about normal things, but as soon as both of you become alone in a room, you instantly lust for another. I like that gap.

When we're alone, I instantly kiss her. At first we only peck, but gradually things become heavier, and soon we're making out. This makes both of us even more excited.

Getting excited...

Once we both get excited, I take off her clothes and begin fondling, kissing and sucking her breasts. When I do this, her nipples get hard, and soon she can't take it any longer. Then she starts fondling my penis, and we move into a 69 position. When this happens, my penis gets very hard. It gets so hard I could slap someone with it.

When I have sex with my partner, we finish foreplay very quickly, because we can hardly wait. Even before we start foreplay, she's already very wet and 100% ready for my penis to enter. My penis is also completely erect. I get the feeling that our foreplay is getting shorter and shorter.



Insert the penis and begin sex.

When neither of us can take it any longer, I insert my erect penis into her vagina. We usually start from missionary. Sometimes, though, she inserts it in herself from cowgirl position. I buck my hips, move my penis around in her vagina, and try to make her feel better and better. Just inserting my penis inside her is heaven for me.

As my bucking continues, we hungrily kiss and lust for one another. Our bodies are perfectly entwined. This is my favorite part of sex. I think that sex where you can feel love is the absolute best kind of sex. You don't get this kind of connection with loveless sex.

Vocalization during sex is also essential. The difference in silent sex and sex where your partner is saying "It feels so good" and "I love you" is great. I like making my partner say slightly embarrassing things. If you use your imagination a little, you can start having even better sex.

When we have sex we change from missionary to sitting, then to cowgirl, then to back, and try many different positions. She doesn't like when I pull my penis out of her, so we try to change without coming apart as much as possible. I also prefer switching while leaving my penis inside.



Then, ejaculation.

Have sex by bucking your hips harder and harder until you can't hold back anymore. When this happens to me, I try to avoid ejaculating by changing positions. I prefer to ejaculate in the missionary position, while holding on tight to my partner.

Before I ejaculate, I tell my partner, "I'm going to cum." Then she says "It's OK. Cum in me." I like hearing this. Then my bucking gets even harder, and I ejaculate deep inside her. When I ejaculate, my penis throbs and squirts out semen, and she can feel it too.

When I ejaculate inside like this once in a while, it really feels incredible. My mind goes so white it feels like I might die. The feeling of delivering my semen straight into my partner's womb is just too good.

After ejaculation.

Once I ejaculate, I wait a bit and then pull out my penis. It's always covered in my semen and my partner's fluid, as is the entrance to her vagina. So I wipe it with a tissue for her, and then wipe off my penis.

Then, we lay naked for a while, enjoying the after-effects of good sex. I like this time too. It feels so romantic when we kiss and hug each other like this.

That's how my sex is, at least. I'd like to know how you all approach sex as well. Most of the people around me are virgins, so I don't have many opportunities to ask questions like this...