Japanese Sex Essentials

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The "saddling" position, or "honma gake" in Japanese, is another one of the 48 traditional Japanese positions. It's also referred to as the reverse sitting position.



When I have sex with my partner, we use this position. We usually go in this order: missionary, sitting, doggy, then she switches into this position.

Most of the time, I buck my hips hard from behind. It's a nice position to use before or after doggy style.

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There are two versions of the missionary position: when the man and woman are embracing, and when the man sits upright.

The embracing position is very romantic. In this position, you can kiss your partner and slowly move in and out, feeling every inch of each other.

When I have sex with my partner, I always take a little time to do missionary as illustrated below.



When I buck my hips and move my penis around within my partner in this position, my penis hits her G-spot perfectly, and she screams out in pleasure every time. I also recommend lifting up your partner's legs when you try this.

It's easier to slide your penis against the underside of your partner's stomach in this position, so women really enjoy it.

It's hard to enter from this angle when you're embracing one another, so I recommend trying this. And since it's the missionary position, you can watch your partner's expression closely, and it's easy to move in and out. Definitely a position to use regularly.

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I slept over my partner's house last night. Of course, we had sex.

Last night, we spent more time in the cowgirl position than usual. As I moved my penis around, searching for her sweet spot, she whined and told me how good it felt.



It's easy to aim your penis in the cowgirl position, so I slid my penis up and down where I imagined her G-spot to be, as visible in the image above.

She said she got a really good feeling in her stomach when I did that. When you attack the G-spot, it's important to push up against the woman's stomach.

If you buck your hips so that only the tip of your penis is sliding against it, you can probably keep going for a long time. If I moved deep enough so that my entire penis was sliding up against her like that...I probably wouldn't be able to last very long. I don't have any problems with premature ejaculation, however...(´･ω･`)

She enjoyed it, I enjoyed it, so we had sex for a long time.

I don't think we could ever get sick of this position.

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The closed legs position is when a woman closes her legs during the missionary position and tightens her vagina's grip around the penis.



The tightness of the vagina around the penis strengthens with this position, so the male's pleasure intensifies as well. It's difficult to insert the penis into the deepest part of the vagina with this position, however. And while the physical pleasure feels better, personally, I find this position a bit unnatural and not very arousing, so I don't really recommend it.

Lately, due to incorrect masturbating techniques, (such as foreskin masturbation) the number of men who are unable to ejaculate within a vagina is increasing. The closed legs position emulates the grip of a hand very closely, however, so this may be a good position to use for men who have that problem. It feels so good just inserting my penis normally into a vagina, however, that it's hard for me to believe there are actually people with that kind of problem.

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The "wild peony," or "midare botan" in Japanese, is another one of the 48 traditional Japanese sex positions. You can see it in detail below.



In this position, the man pushes his hips up and raises the woman. Since the woman has her legs open, the the sight of the man's penis sliding in and out of her vagina is completely visible.

I recommend doing this position while the woman is facing a mirror. That way, the woman can see something she probably usually doesn't get to see...

That's how I do it when I enter this position with my partner. She often says cute things like "Ohh...I can actually see it going in and out...this is so embarrassing..." It's cute to see girls get embarrassed at themselves. That's probably the very reason why the "wild peony" position was originally invented.